News flash: as of
today, Matt and I are getting married in exactly
6 months and one day!!! Exciting, right?! It seems like just yesterday that he had the crazy notion of spending the rest of his life with me and
proposed. I couldn't be happier!!
Though we've only officially been engaged six months or so, we've been dating for over four years. In that time, we've learned so much about each other and still discover new things every day. Thankfully, one thing I committed to memory right away was how to smooth things over and get what I want. :)
(You thought this was going somewhere sweet, didn't you?)
But really, relationships are all about knowing how to compromise. It's about giving a little so each party can be happy. It's also about knowing your darling's weak spots or, as I like to call them, victory buttons. For example, Matt knows that if I'm being stubborn regarding something or he'd like to ask a big favor of me, all he has to mention is a little trip to Razzy Fresh or Oakmont Bakery (for the butter stars... mm!), and I'm putty in his hands.
P-u-t-t-y. It's a bit shameful (though not surprising), really.
Likewise, if I need an opinion regarding fonts for our wedding invitations or a ride to the mall to return something, there is a short list of weapons that'll ensure the job gets done. Matt has few victory buttons (at least that I've unearthed so far) and they're all
edible. (Aren't we just perfect for one another?!) His number one is
hot dogs. He's like a shark -- put a hot dog within 500 yards of his smeller and he'll locate it within minutes. Since hot dogs don't exactly turn heads when it comes to culinary masterpieces, I had to settle for his #3 and #4 victory buttons:
asparagus and mushrooms. (In case you're wondering, #2 is
cherry pie, but last season's supply is gone and we're waiting on this year's.)